The Unexplained - Tales of the Weird and Strange at 28 Ludwig Rd.

Halloween Craig at the Welch's ca. 2006

      Halloween has always been a well celebrated holiday with the  family.  Perhaps it was because Melanie was born on Oct. 25.  We always enjoyed dressing up and going out for candy.  Even now, we love to decorate with ghosts, witches, fog machines and creepy music for the night of all nights for the scary and weird.
     As kids growing up on Ludwig Rd., we would take our pillow cases from house to house and hope for a windfall when it came to candy.  We never really ever got much, but the point was to be out with the neighbors like the Darling's, the Srodulski's, the Horhorouny's and the Adam's family.  We ran in groups as we went from house to house knocking on doors and holding our bags out.  I believe the last Halloween Craig and I actually went out for was in 1974.  I would have been 17 and Craig would have been 18. It was just before he left for bootcamp in the Navy.  Melanie would have been 9.  I dressed up as a doll, Craig donned his normal bum, complete with torn sweatshirt, pants that had pieces of rags hanging off of them, a knit hat, and lots of brown shoe polish on his face.  We actually got a lot of candy that year for some reason.  By that time there were many more people living up on Ludwig Rd and area, so there were plenty of houses to stop at.

Halloween 1997 at The Welch's

     One costume that I remember Craig doing was one he made out of boxes.  He must have been around 13 at the time.  He took a bunch of boxes, cut holes for his legs, arms, and head, and put them on.  He covered his body with them to become a robot.  He had spray painted the boxes in silver paint, made a hat out of cardboard covered with aluminum foil, and he painted his face and hands with some kind of silver paint.  It was made from Noxzema skin cream that he mixed Testors silver enamel paint into it.  We were very creative when there was very little available to purchase, as there is today.  Now we have face paint.  Back when we were teens, we had to make our own.
     It wasn't always on Halloween that we had some really strange things happen up on the hill.  It was a bit secluded when we moved in around 1958.  We had the street almost entirely to ourselves.  Perhaps some of these things that happened were dreams, or just an overactive imagination, but even today I cannot understand how they happened.  This entry is dedicated to all who appreciate Halloween, and believe there is much more unseen in this world than we ever thought.

                                                    1967 - Visitation   
     To this day, this incident that happened to me still leaves me undecided if it was a dream or real.  It occurred when it was winter.  There was a moon that night.  I always slept with a nightlight because I had such night fears.  On this particular night, I was awakened by a tapping on my window.  My room was its normal configuration, and the night light was burning.  I was drawn to the window by some kind of force.  As I looked out, I saw three figures floating outside.  This window was very high up because it overlooked our sledding hill.  The figures were small beings in a robe of some kind, and they had no hair.  Their eyes were slanted and their mouths were barely visible.  Their skin was very light and glowed in the moonlight.  I found myself opening up the window and letting them float in.
     They seemed to create a table and lights out of thin air.  It just suddenly appeared, and I went to lay on it.  I remember them saying in my mind to not be afraid.  I wasn't, which is very strange.  I would have considered this a nightmare, but I was not scared.  I remember a light in my eyes, then I remember them putting something into my head on the front of my forehead.  It was like a needle, but I did not feel anything but a little pressure.  Then I do not remember anything more until I awoke the next morning.  
     The spot where they placed the needle has an indentation in it even now.  I can always find the spot on my forehead.  It is nearly in the center of my forehead, just below the hairline.  
     

                                           Generational Visitation?

     This incident has significance because I told my mom about the dream after my daughter, Kathleen was born.  My mother told me she remembered a similar incident happening to her up on Ludwig Rd.  She also said her mother told her about a ghostly visit from some entity when they lived near Cedar Mountain in Newington.  Of course, Ludwig Rd is a hill, and is actually almost a foothill to Soapstone Mountain.  So was I actually visited by an alien race?  Well, let me continue one more piece to this story.
     When my daughter was very little, she had many incidents where she would be sleeping but would begin to cry and scream and lash her feet and arms.  One day when she was 3, her father and I happened to be watching a documentary on UFO's.  Kathleen was on the floor playing.  She happened to look up just as a sketch of one representation of an alien flashed on the t.v.  She began screaming and ran down the hall, crying "The Masks, The Masks."  We had never exposed her to anything regarding space or UFO's.  I had never told her my story.  She just recognized them.  She was very afraid of these "masks."  
      A few years later she told me about her trips at night that she took with a friend from another planet.  He took her to his planet and showed her things.  She was afraid of him, but she couldn't stop the trips.  He would come and take her away, and she would have no other choice but to go.  It was a desert place she would go to, with twilight like lighting.  She always found herself back in bed the next morning.  
     One time, Michael and I were dating, and we took a dirt road called Parker Rd. in Ellington up to Soapstone Mountain.  We were looking for a place to park, frankly, and this was a dirt road and I knew it would end up heading to Soapstone and come out near the McIntires house on Webster Rd.  As Michael and I drove carefully on the road, both of us felt a strange tingling sensation, and it was as if the hair on our heads began to stand on end.  Something was going on.  We looked through the woods to the left, and saw numerous lights deep in the woods.  We thought we heard a strange whirring sound as well.  We were so scared, but couldn't turn around so we kept on going.  Thankfully, the car did not conk out.  We finally got to Webster, zipped down it as fast as we could, then went back to Ludwig Rd.  

Looking west from Soapstone Mountain, Somers, CT.

     The area around Soapstone Mountain has had a few reports of extraterrestrial activity.  So why did my grandmother talk about a visitation,near Cedar Mountain and why did my daughter tell me about her friend, here in Tolland?  Well, it is generally thought that if there really are aliens amongst us, they prefer connecting to a certain family and following them through the generations.  Well, it could be all just dreams, but the more I hear, the more I am convinced we are sharing our space with other beings, and that part of the mystery regarding them has to do with following one particular ancestry line.  Perhaps they are our family ancestors that walk still in an evolved state.  It is a curiosity that just might find actual proof in our lifetime.
    
                    The Mystery of The Horse Oil Painting - ca. 1974

     My father used to buy paint by number sets.  He painted a lovely set of geisha's once, and also painted Blue Boy by Thomas Gainsborough.  I also wanted to try my hand at paint by numbers, so I bought a set of horse portraits.  I spent many hours trying to get the details just right.  The horse was a ghostly gray/white horse with a gray mane.  It was an oval, or perhaps it was a rectangle but I cut it into an oval.  
     I decided to hang one of the finished paintings on my bedroom wall.  Melanie was around 9 at the time.  I was quite proud of the painting and it hung on my wall for quite awhile.  One day the two of us were either listening to the radio, or playing instruments.  Suddenly, we heard something drop.  I looked at the wall, and where the horse was supposed to be hanging, there was nothing but the tack in the wall that had been holding it.  Melanie and I looked at each other with big eyes.  "Do you see that.?"  Neither of us could believe that the tack was still so securely in the wall.  I figured that perhaps the painting had only been held in the wall by the edge of the tack; that the tack had never actually been through the painting.
     I dived behind the bed to get the painting.  As I held it up in the light of the window, I looked at it and saw that indeed the painting board actually did have a tack hole in it.  You could see the impression of the edge of the tack forming a ring around the hole.  I looked closer, expecting to see a slit in the painting board, figuring that maybe the split had caused the painting to slip.  There was no slit.  There was only a well defined tack hole with a ring around it.  
     I am fairly certain I still have the painting somewhere in the house today because I did hang it up for a while when we first moved into 27 Metcalf Rd in Tolland.  My sister always remembered the time the painting fell out of the wall and left the tack in the wall.  Both of us could never explain how it happened, just that it did.  Whenever Melanie saw the painting she would always say "Do you remember the time that painting fell off the wall?'  We believe it was spirited off the wall by some kind of invisible force, perhaps our alien ancestors that experimented with me in 1967.  

                                                            Ouija - ca. 1973
   
       I ask you, what child is not curious about a Ouija board.  My friend, Kathi Horhorouny, had one.  We used to pull it out at her house and play the game by asking questions and letting the pointer spell out the answer.  It always seemed strange things would happen whenever we did bring out the board.  I was quite surprised that Kathi even had one.  I did not like using the Ouija board because I truly thought it was possessed by spirits, and I was convinced one was going to take me over, just like what happened in the movie "The Exorcist."
     My sister Melanie also feared the Ouija board, too, and my mother never would let us have one.  However, that does not stop others from bringing a board with them  That is just what happened when Melanie had a sleepover birthday party when she turned 8 I think.  She had all her friends sleeping in the basement.  The boys, lead by our brother Craig, dressed up in weird clothes, painted their faces with shoe polish and while the girls were bowed over a Ouija board that one had brought, the boys gathered outside around the large window and began turning flashlights on and off under their chins while they made ugly, scary faces.  The girls were scared out of their minds, and the board was thrown against the wall.  They did not realize it was Craig and his friends, which included Dusty Darling and Bill Srodulski.  Of course they thought it was funny as heck, but the young girls in the basement were not so amused.
     Melanie had been asleep and when all the ruckus started she woke up, screamed at the ugly faces she saw in her half sleep/wake state, and then realized someone had brought a Ouija board and did not want them using it anymore. She also figured out pretty quickly that the people in the window was the neighborhood boys trying to scare the girls. 
     A few nights later, Melanie was sleeping in her bed.  One of the windows in the room was very high and overlooked the backyard.  It was pretty much a second story window.  She was awakened by a noise.  As she looked out the window, she saw ghosts floating outside of it.  She began to scream and called "Mom."  Well, my parents bedroom was next to mine.  I heard Melanie screaming.  You couldn't miss it, it was so loud.  I figured mom would go because she was a very light sleeper, but neither her or dad woke up.  I ran to Melanie's bedroom, and she was petrified as she tried covering her head with the blankets.  I turned on the light, and she was fully awake and when I sat on the bed and uncovered her, she heaved and cried in hysterics.  Finally I got out of her that she had seen ghostly faces in her window.   She swore she had been awake.  She swore that it was not a dream.  It couldn't have been the boys again, because there was no way they could reach the window without a ladder.  There was no ladder leaning up against the house.  She was as sure she saw real ghosts that had been generated from the sudden scare the girls had received while in the act of using the Ouija board, as I was that I had seen real  aliens at my window in 1967.  
     As we grew older and had our own children, Melanie still insisted that she had seen spirits floating outside the window when she was 8 and living at 28 Ludwig Rd.  

                                           

 
       

Life at 28 Ludwig Rd. with my sister - Melanie Sundgren Welch

                                                                                                        Melanie, ca.2005.  Photo by June Mita

     Melanie Lee Sundgren came into this world on October 25, 1965.  I know I was very excited to have a baby coming into the family.  For me, I was around 8, and still was into dolls and trying to be a mommy.  So I did spend a lot of time pampering her, holding her, and telling all my little friends about her.  Of course, the reality is that babies are not dolls.  They cry, they poop, they need baths, and they can't be left in a corner, forgotten for the moment.  The only thing I enjoyed doing after about a month was feeding her a bottle, because that was like feeding a doll.
     Our brother, Craig was 9 and he also liked taking care of little Melanie, at least for a little while.  Then he began to make himself scarce, choosing to be with friends over Melanie.  So it went for most of her childhood.  We being the older brother and sister were always trying to lose her to be free of any responsibility, and she was always trying to tag along with whatever we were doing at the time.
     I don't remember too many funny stories about Melanie's childhood.  I am sure there were plenty of funny things that happened to her, but they aren't something I took much notice of, so I will try to tell a few of the things I remember.  These stories are mostly for Melanie's children, Marc, Amy, Ryan and Sarah.  They may already know them, but for the sake of history, I will repeat them.  Melanie was daddy's little girl when she was small.  She said when he died in 2013 that the worse day for her was when she couldn't crawl up beside him and lay on the couch because she was too big.

                                                 Funny Photos - Long Gone ca. 1967

     My grandfather, Ralph Harlow, had a strange sense of humor.  He smoked these smelly, kind of bumpy dark cigars that were thin.  They may have even been a cigarette.  When Melanie was around 2 1/2, he decided to let her have a taste.  He gave her the cigar, told her to pretend she was sucking a straw, then blow out.  Well, we had a picture of her blowing smoke out of her mouth, holding the cigar in her two hands while it was still in her mouth.  Her cheeks were puffed out and she was surrounded by a fog of smoke.  The picture is long gone, but I remember it because we looked at it so often and laughed.
     I remember another photo of her.  She was around 14 months.  She had on only a sagging diaper with rubber panties.  She had on a red knit stocking hat of Craigs, one of dad's ties wrapped around her neck and practically touching the floor and a pair of dad's slippers on her feet.  Her head was turned away from the camera as she walked past.  We always got a kick out of that one, too.  She always did like to play dress-up using mom's heels or dad's big shoes.  He was a size 11.  She was so tiny, though, that I was surprised she could even move her legs to walk.  That was another photo that didn't survive all our moves.

                                 Surviving on Peanut Butter and Bread ca. 1968

     Melanie was a terribly finicky eater  She hated most foods.  She would drink milk, eat bread, have peanut butter and jelly sandwiches and eat cereal, because we always ate cereals like Lucky Charms, Captain Crunch or Count Chocula.  I think she ate pastas as well, like macaroni and cheese, beefaroni and ChefBoyArDee ravioli.  Mom used to buy Tree Tavern frozen pizza and she also got a make
your own pizza called Appian Way.  Melanie would eat those later on but not until she was around 7.   

                                                                    Mel, ca. 1970 Photo by June Mita
     Many suppers, Melanie would drop broccoli or spinach under the table and of course the dog would eat it.   She never really seemed to get in trouble for not eating.  I guess by the time she came along, mom and dad were not as anxious about kids getting enough food.  They had already been through it with Craig and I.  Of course, all that lack of interest in food caused Melanie to be so skinny it made me angry.  Craig and I were solid, big kids.  We ate everything it seemed.  But not Melanie.  She was a light weight through most of her childhood.

                                    Cute Didn't Work This Time ca. 1969
                                                                                                                              Naoma Harlow, ca. 1952
     Melanie was used to getting away with stuff.  One time, though, she did a very wicked thing.  She was perhaps 3, maybe 4, and my mom must have wanted her to do something.  It made Melanie really mad at her, so she took mom's most favorite photo and put a mustache on it and scribbled a little.  Melanie saw how mad mom was and ran under my white iron bed in the furthest corner she could.  Mom went diving under, but couldn't reach her so Melanie just looked at her, put her two index fingers in front of her face and said to mom, while shaking her head, "No,No, No, No."  Mom started laughing so hard and Melanie began to smile and said "Your laughing.  You won't spank me."  So she came out and mom grabbed her and spanked her really good.  From that point on, Melanie realized even if mom and dad laughed or smiled, if she was going to get spanked, she would.
     Years later, Melanie made good her angry pen by bringing the picture to a restorer, who was able to redo the picture to its original beauty.  When mom got it for her birthday around 1992, she cried because it was the best photo she had ever had taken of her.

                                             Industrious Melanie ca. 1971

     Mel was always industrious.  She didn't have any girls her age nearby, so she had to find ways to keep herself busy.  My dad had a roofing business and brought a lot of envelopes, paper, pens and pencils home.  Behind the bookcase was a large area that was supposed to be the stairs to the basement.  Dad had put a floor in when we rented the upstairs to a family named Champ.  He never removed it when we moved back upstairs so he used it for a mini office.

I still have the table.  Here it is, 55 years years later.  Photo by June Mita

     Mom had set up a table for Melanie while she worked on dad's business.  The table was built by my Uncle Walter for Craig and I when we were very little.  It was about 20 inches by 30 inches.  He had it painted with Pennsylvania Dutch designs.  The table became Melanie's "office." She would spend hours organizing papers and envelopes and writing pictures or doodles into a paper pad.  She would carefully fold the papers and put them in envelopes and then put them into a cardboard box that became the 'out' box.
     Mom had extra ledgers and receipt pads as well, which Melanie made out for pretend customers.  We always knew where to look for her when we needed her.  She was usually behind the bookcase.

                                                         Blankie ca. 1966

     Melanie had a blanket she carried around with her for many years.  Mom couldn't ever wash it without Melanie going into hysterics over that blanket.  I  am never certain it ever got washed unless mom did it while Mel was asleep.  That was very difficult because Mel would have her hand so tight on that blanket, if you tried to undo her hand she would wake up.  Yep, she always had her thumb in her mouth and her blanket held up to her cheek.  Dad called her Linus, from the Peanuts comic strip.  She used to pull the fuzz off the blanket too and put it up to her nose, so it was pretty threadbare by the time she went to school.
     Mom had a heck of a time separating Melanie from that blanket when she had to go to school.  There was lots of temper tantrums from Melanie when she couldn't find her blankie.  I don't know when she stopped carrying around the darn thing, but it was pretty soon after she started going to school. 

                                      The Bicycle Incident ca. 1975

     Melanie had a lesson taught to her one day when she was about 10.  She had a nice speed bike that let her get to her friends houses very far away.  One time she went about 2 miles to visit her friend. As industrious as she was with schoolwork and business forms, she was rather careless when it came to taking care of her things.
     She left the bike on the side of the road where her friend lived, and the two went walking somewhere.  For some reason, dad needed to find her so he went to the friends as well.  Melanie was not about anywhere, but he did see the bike parked right on the street, so he took it.  He hid it in one of our sheds, and waited for Mel to stroll home.
     Melanie came home and didn't say a word.  She watched t.v., played with the cats, and dived into a book.  Dad watched her carefully, but Mel never gave any indication anything was wrong.
      Finally near supper he looked aat her and said "So, Mel, are you missing something?"  She looked back and with a complete stone face said no.  He said "Are you sure?"  She shook her head yes, she was sure.  In his way he said "Come here, I want to show you something."  He took her to the shed and said "Open it."  Well, there inside was her bike.
     She was grounded for a week because of the lie and dad said "If I ever see that bike on the side of the road again, you won't get it back."  She took great care of her bike after that. 

                            1973 - Of Weather, Horses, and Chicken Shows
   School Photo ca. 1973                                      

       1973 was a big year for our family.  Lots happened that year.  Right around Craig's 17th birthday in April, Melanie had a terrible accident.  We had a horse named Bucky.  He was more of a pony and had been a barrel racer.  Melanie wanted a horse, so dad got her one.
     Bucky was very good at jumping fences so he would often jump over his yard fence and run down the street to the Ludwig's farm.  They had lots of fields, and Bucky had a taste for fresh grass.  Because he was so nimble and stubborn, he wasn't always the best riding horse.
     It was early April and mom was walking next to Bucky while Melanie tried using rein commands.  Well, I believe a car came down the road and spooked Bucky because of the unsure rider Melanie was.  He reared up a little and Melanie fell off.  She hit her head so bad it started bleeding.
     Mom picked Mel up and carried her home while leading Bucky.  Mel was incoherent all the way home.  Mom was afraid that the fall had smashed Mel's brain somehow.
     I remember dad putting Mel on my bed and making the room dark.  He took a flashlight and flicked it on and off in Mel's eyes.  The pupils were responding to the sudden flashes of light but because she made no sense, he said they had to get Mel to the hospital.
     They had to keep her awake all night.  She had suffered a concussion and was in the hospital for a few days.  I thought she was going to die and cried all night the first night.  She missed Craig's birthday on Apr. 8, but when she came home we had cake for 2 occasions, her coming home and Craig's belated birthday.
     Not two weeks later, we were in York, PA. for the biggest chicken show on the east coast.  Melanie was still feeling the affects of the concussion when mom had a car accident going into the parking lot of the motel.  Thankfully our Chrysler Newport cushioned any force of the blow, and none of us were phased at all by the car that crashed into us.  Follow the link for the whole story on this incident.
     On December 16, we were under one of the worse storms damage wise for Connecticut.  It was a mix of rain, ice and snow.

Glistening ice from the December 17, 1973 ice storm in Connecticut.  This photo was taken from the cemetary off North Eagleville Road at UConn.  Photo submitted by Wayne Norman Shpow listener Dave Doiron of Mansfield.

When we were sent home early from school the bus couldn't get up our double hill on Ludwig Rd.  Melanie was totally wild with worry about our dad because he wasn't coming home.  Finally he showed up around 5:00 in his truck.  He barely made it home.
     We lost power for the first time around 6:30 p.m.  Melanie was in her element.  We could not go anywhere and we all had to stay in the living room where we had a fire going in the fireplace.  Since there was no t.v., no lights and no in and out of the refrigerator, we took to playing board games by candle light.  It was the happiest childhood memory Melanie had.
     With me at 16 and Craig at 17, and Mel only 8, we did not spend any time with her.  She was just a kid.  We were teenagers and were constantly with our friends.  During that storm, though, she had our undivided attention.  That was all she wanted occasionally, just us spending even a few minutes with her, which we hardly ever did.
    The storm knocked our power out but we happened to have a CL&P worker who lived in the neighborhood.  Mr Darling lived on Newell Hill Rd, and restored our neighborhood for about 13 hours.  Then it went out again for about 9 hours and he came back to restore it for all of us.  There were many shivering out the storm for days, but Mr. Darling, who was a darling, made sure we were all okay.

                             Sibling Antics And Jealousies - Barbizon Girl

Family portrait, ca. 1969.  Photo by William C. Sundgren, Jr.

     Our attention toward Melanie as siblings was generally harassment.  She was the baby who got away with everything it seemed and she got to do things that Craig and I never got to do.  Craig was the biggest trail to Melanie.  He used to coax her under a blanket or sleeping bag because she was always cold.  Then he would wrap the blanket around her very tightly and either hold it down or sit on her.  We pig piled on her regularly.
     Melanie always screamed she had to go to the bathroom, so we would let her go.  Well, it was her way of getting away.  Once, though, she had cried wolf too many times so Craig wouldn't let her go, and she really did pee inside the blanket.  Craig stopped harassing her at that point, but we probably did long term damage to not only her pride, but her bladder. 
     Melanie was a girl scout, just like I was.  She
collected many more badges than I ever did.  She was rewarded by my mom and dad by being able to attend girl scout camp every year for 2 weeks.  I never got to go, and I used to get so mad that she could have all that fun while I had to sweat through humid, hot days with no relief from lakes like she had.  Of course, when I finally discovered what they actually did, between bugs, wild animals and hiking, I was glad that I didn't have to go after all.

Barbizon Girl, ca. 1979  Photo by Richard Sundgren

     Another point of contention between sisters was when she got to attend Barbizon School of Modeling.  I think it was around 1979-80.  I was married by then but there was still a bit of a sting when I found out once again she got something I never did.  She learned things about posture, walking, and hair care.  Of course, the biggie was learning how to use and apply make-up, something I never learned very well.  Dad was so pleased at this beautiful daughter of his that he shot a ton of photos and showed them to all his cronies from roofing and at cafes and taverns.
     I am not certain Melanie ever appreciated that kind of attention. She had no aspirations to be a model.  It may have been our mom's way of getting her out of her introverted shell to socialize more and have fun.  Melanie had always been more academic and serious, unlike her very flighty, rebellious , artistically bent older sister.  
     I was terribly jealous of all the perks Melanie got growing up, but she was always envious of my abilities with poetry, music composition, sewing, drawing, photography and painting.  She was also sad because she didn't have any sibling close in age like Craig and I.  We were 14 months apart and could always use the other for a playmate when our friends were away.  

                                                    Auction Block ca. 1978

Very Last Christmas, 1977 at 28 Ludwig Rd.  Photo by Naoma Sundgren

     Melanie did endure many more upheavals than Craig and I.  The worse was when the town of Ellington came by in October of 1977 and nailed a sign on our big ash tree next to the road at 28 Ludwig Rd.  I had just gotten married in June, and I went to visit one November day and there was an auction sign.  Dad hadn't been able to pay the property taxes so the town seized the house and told the rest of the family they had only until March of 1978 to either pay the taxes or move all their things out.
     Melanie was 12 at the time.  I sat with her for many hours between November and March as she cried about losing the only home she had ever known.  Nothing could be done.  Michael and I couldn't pay the large tax bill, which was over $10,000.  Neither could we bid on the house.  We had no money to help.  I think the selling bid was around $28,000 for an oversize ranch with two complete houses (upstairs and downstairs), 4.5 acres, and a corral and several outbuildings that had housed our large chicken population. 
     They moved to Hoffman Rd., down in the valley in Ellington and rented half of a duplex.  It wasn't a bad place really.  Mel quickly got used to it and even liked it more than Ludwig Rd.
     Then she had to live through the mounting arguments between our parents until they finally split up.  Mom worked hard to pay the rent and they stayed there until around 1984.  

                                                      School Days

Melanie in EHS marching band, ca. 1983.  Photo by June Mita

      Mel seemed to be interested in music.  She didn't really sing, but she did begin taking banjo lessons at around 12.  She wanted to learn to play the theme from the movie Deliverance.  I played the guitar and within a few months we were playing the duet.  She learned the song much better than I did.  She would start going really fast and I would give up because I couldn't keep up with her.  She also learned to play the clarinet and played with the Ellington High School marching band for most of her 4 years there.
     One memory that I have was when Mel was in 1st or 2nd. grade at Crystal Lake School.  I was very sentimental at 15.  The class was doing a Christmas concert and the class sang "It's A Small World" so sweetly it made me cry.  Melanie had this other worldly look on her face, one of rapture and uplift as she sang.  Normally I hate that song, but when she sang it with her class, for that one moment I wished they could continue singing forever.
     In her adult life she also learned to play the piano only because she wanted to be able to play the piece from A Charlie Brown Christmas.  She learned it.  Whatever she set her mind to to learn, she did.
     If Melanie got into any funny scrapes, I don't know any.  She was always very controlled and stayed out of trouble.  She was brainy and was 4th in her graduating high school class of 1984.  She won a Pell grant for her grades as well as a few scholarships.  She went into the ROTC Air Force at UConn to study engineering.  Because of her accident with Bucky, the Air Force wouldn't let her stay in the program.  A traumatic brain injury or concussions are considered placing the pilot and plane at risk, so after a year she had to leave the program.  She studied Economics instead.  
    

    
     

                                             

Naoma Harlow Sundgren - Of Farms, Dances and Marriage

                                                     The Aborn's of Ellington  

                                                              Meadowbrook Rd., ca. 1944

  One of my mother's favorite trips was to Meadowbrook Rd. in Ellington, CT.  That was where her Uncle Robert had his dairy farm.  My grandmother was an Aborn, and Robert was her brother.  Mom loved visiting all her cousins there like Sherwood, Emerson and Shirley Aborn.  Emerson was her favorite cousin.
     When you threw all the kids together there were around 11 or 12, enough for a baseball team.  She never told me they played baseball somewhere on the 55 acres,  but it is only natural to assume they did.  There were plenty of cow plops to create bases and a pitcher's mound.
     The farm always had lots of barn cats.  Many a family member would leave with a kitten or two hidden under their shirts when they went home.  When the mom's and dad's woke up the next morning, they would find new kittens looking for milk or food.  Nobody would claim they brought a kitten home, so there was never a way to find out who did it.  They didn't get turned out, either.  The cats were just given a new home in a different barn or garage.
     Mom told me about her cousin, Grace Aborn.  Grace never married.  She always wore pants and boots and smoked cigars.  Mom always thought Grace was a little off, as did many folks in Ellington farm country.  She was full of heart, though.  She helped everyone and hardly ever lost her temper.
     The farm is still located on Meadowbrook Rd.  It is still owned by an Aborn and it is still a dairy farm.  Emerson took over the farm when his father died, then his son Skipper took it over when Emerson died.  Now Skipper's kids are running the operation.
     I do remember many visits to Emerson and family when I was growing up, because both our families lived in Ellington.  He loved to joke around and give us a hard time when we said something backward, or could be interpreted in another way.
     There was an old gray horse at the farm.  Mom said the horse was there even when she was younger.  When I was 8, Emerson told me that horse was around 30 years old.  I don't remember when the horse died, but it was around for a number of my growing up years.  We used to have rides on it when we were really little and mom remembered riding the horse as well before we were born.  Mom called the horse a swayback.  That is why we couldn't ride the horse when we got bigger, because not only was it old, but it had a weak back.
     We used to always play the game of Life at Emerson's with our cousins Audrey, Richard and Skipper.  They were always ready for board games, including some lengthy games with Monopoly, and fun battles with the game Battleship.
     Audrey had her own record player.  She had dozens of the small 45 rpm records. We spent hours listening to Creedence Clearwater Revival in the late 60's and early 70's.
     They had a stuffed owl on top of an old stand up piano.  They must have used it in days long past as a scare tactic to keep birds out of the gardens.
     Our favorite thing to do was ride in the back of a trailer hauled by the old Farmall tractor. 

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Aunt Ellie, ca. 1943

     Mom told me her sister Eleanor, my Aunt Ellie, was born a blue baby.  When you're born a blue baby it means the umbilical cord gets wrapped around your throat or waist, cutting off breathing.  It turns your skin blue because it is like holding your breath.  It was a very good doctor because he/she was able to clear Ellie of her obstruction so she could breathe.  She changed color from blue to pink.  Because of it though my mom said Ellie was never 100% right in the head.  She also had a very crooked knee that made her leg go outwards.
     Even so, she went to school to about 8th grade, got married, adopted a son (my cousin Lee), held a job and ran the farm with my Uncle Dick.  Whatever she lacked mentally she made up for with her warm and caring heart and abundant amounts of love.
     My mom's mother died in 1948 from diabetes.  My mom was on a ski trip in Vermont when it happened.  They told her to finish her trip, then they would have the wake and funeral.  So she did.

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                                         Lady of The Dance

    My mom, ca. 1950                                                                                                 Jean Harlow
     My mom was beautiful.  They used to call her Jean Harlow because of her blonde hair that she kept styled like Jean Harlow.  She could have been a pin up girl and even had several photos taken in the pin up girl fashion.
     My mom loved dancing.  She was raised on musicals, the Big Band Era, and the Follies.  She remembered dances that were held at Colt Park in Hartford every Saturday night during the summer.  She was a very good social dancer and always had plenty of partners.  She always had dreams of becoming a Ginger Rogers with a partner like Fred Astaire.  Of course no partner was anything like Fred Astaire.  During WWII she used to go to the USO gatherings, and got a number of marriage proposals. She was having too much fun and always said no.  Then she met my dad.
     I can't be sure how she even met my dad.  It may have been at a dance hall.  My mom was very independent and had her own car.  If there was a dance hall near by she would drive to it.  My dad was living in Crystal Lake, a village of Ellington, CT.  There was also a lake there called, of course, Crystal Lake.
     On the west shore of the lake was a restaurant and dance hall called Pagani's.  It had a beautiful location and there was a gorgeous sandy beach along the lake.  It was a hopping place in the 40's and 50's.  My mom used to go there often.  My dad was a great dancer, too.  That was the common ground between them.  Both seemed perfect dance partners.  I wouldn't doubt they met at Pagani's and finally at 29 mom said yes to a marriage proposal from my dad.  They were married on April 2, 1955.  My mom was 30, and my dad was 29.

                                                   Mom and Dad's wedding photo, ca. 1955

 

                          L. to R.   Ronald Harlow, Eleanor Harlow, Richard Sundgren, Naoma Harlow, Ralph Harlow, Phyllis Harlow, Ralph Harlow.


                               The Business Of Beauty In The 50's

Naoma Harlow, ca. 1953

     My mom told me that she used to ski at Wickham Park in Manchester, CT.  For those familiar with the park, there is a very steep hill that faces Hartford.  I don't know where, but there used to be a ski tow rope on that side so you could get back to the hill top.  It was a close run for my mom to go to in order to keep her ski legs.  The tow operated around 1965 to about 1970.  I don't remember the ski tow myself, but she says she did ski there.  I remember the skis were always leaning up against the back of her closet.  I used to put them on my feet when I was small and into dress up.  She was not happy that I scraped the skis across the floor and sometimes outside on the grass. 
     Her favorite kind of skiing was spring skiing.  She would go out to New Hartford or up to the Berkshires on warm sunny days in March.  The temperature would reach the 50's and 60's and there would still be plenty  of snow to ski on. 
     In order to keep her slim figure, mom used to exercise every morning to Jack LaLanne.  My brother and I would exercise to the t.v. right beside our mom.  We would hop and jump and clap our hands in the air.  I never did get a figure like my mother.

Mom, ca. 1988 When she had a hankering for some ice.

     She also liked to ice skate.  The pair of skates she had were from the 40's I think.  They weren't even figure skates.  They were actually hockey skates.  She told me the reason why she had so much trouble skating backwards and in figure 8's was because she had weak ankles.  Maybe it was because the skates were not meant to do figure skating.  Craig and I skated frequently with her.  I had tiny figure skates and Craig had a pair of black ones.  Mom always made sure we always had ice skates as we grew.  She always wanted to be able to bring us with her when she got the hankering to take on some ice. 
     I remember my mom getting a rubber suit to wear while she did chores.  It was supposed to make you sweat so you could lose  weight.  They call them sauna suits now but back in the late 50's and early 60's the suit was made of plastic or rubber.  I remember trying it a few times in my teens.  It didn't work, probably because I wouldn't give up my Frito bandito habit.  It did make me sweat, that much I remember. 

     Mom also had a vibrating belt machine.  You would place the belt around your waist and turn on the machine.  It would shake and jiggle your fat away in theory.  I am not sure it really worked either, but mom would try anything that said it was an easy way to lose weight or maintain your small waist.  Her waist was probably around 23 before she had my brother Craig.  I don't think she ever saw below 26 inches after 1956. 
     She never went out publicly without her lipstick.  Mom didn't always wear lots of eye make up, but if she planned on even just going out to the local corner store in Crystal Lake, her lips would always be red before she left the house.  Powder was usually a requirement as well, and she would always make sure she had on a clean blouse and pants.  Casual clothes such as jeans were not something she would be seen in outside of our own four walls at home.
     Another thing she had lots of were hats.  Mom always had hats to wear for church or special occasions.  In the early 50's she was a secretary at Travelers Insurance and I don't think the ladies of the office ever went bare headed while they were going to work.  I loved playing with all her hats and using them for dress up.  She was the perfect person for dress up.  Between gowns, heels, makeup, jewelry, scarves, and hats, I never wanted for materials to pretend I was a queen or Cinderella at a ball.
     The shop that mom bought all her fine clothes was called the Blue Bird Shop.  I think it used to be on Pratt Street in Hartford, CT.  When I started working in Hartford in 1977, the shop was still operating.  It was primarily a wedding shop by then, but in the 50's it was a women's version of Stackpole, Moore and Tryon, the men's shop on Trumbull St. 
     Overall, I should have learned to be much more vain and refined with my appearance.  Well, perhaps I just got exposed too much to it as a child, but it never took.

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     Mom tried to be the perfect housekeeper during the 50's and 60's.  I am not sure that even with her farming exposure throughout her formative years, domestic mastery really rubbed off.  She used to stuff all our drawers with any clutter that showed up on tables and in chairs, so as the years went by it became harder and harder to open drawers.  The linen closet was always in a rumpled state, and grunge built up in the corners of the bathroom regularly.  Her closet was always very organized, though.  Her shoes were always straight, her clothes were always pressed, and her bureau was always tidy. 
      She had some strange food tastes.  During her single days at Travelers, she told me she would bring onion sandwiches with her for lunch.  Frankly, to think of someone in a closed office sitting at a desk after eating an onion sandwich for lunch must have been very "fragrant" for her co-workers.
     She also liked cucumber and peanut butter sandwiches.  Well, I used to eat Purina dog chow, so I guess eating a peanut butter and cucumber sandwich isn't so strange.  As a child, when the cucumbers started coming, Craig, Mel and I ate a lot of peanut butter and cucumber sandwiches.  They were actually pretty good.
     Another favorite of hers was hot coffee poured on shredded wheat biscuits, with a little milk and sugar.  I never tried that one.  I thought it was weird as a kid and I still do.
     She wasn't much of a cook, really.  Mom could make a decent farm pie crust, though, out of lard.  The original recipe came from Women's Home Companion Cookbook, published in the 1950's.  Here is a recipe I found on Food.com.  I have tasted the crust of my friend, Lynn, who said her mother always used vinegar.  The crust is EXCELLENT.  Here is the recipe. 

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• 2 cups flour
• 1 cup lard, cold
• 1 teaspoon vinegar
• 1/3 cup milk
• 1 pinch salt

Directions:

1. 1
   Cut lard into the flour.
2. 2
   Add the last three ingredients, mix and form into ball.
3. 3
   Divide into thirds.
4. 4
   Chill.
5. 5
   This will be sticky until you chill it.
6. 6
   Keep unused portion in refrigerator until needed.
7. 7
   Roll each out into a 9" piecrust.
8. 8
   If you are baking single crust bake at 400 degrees for 11-13 minutes or until lightly browned.
9. 9
   If you are making a double crust pie follow directions from the can of fruit.
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    As you bake your pie, you may want to add foil around the edges so they don't brown to quickly.
    
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        Mom also baked a lot of homemade bread.  When it came to feeding us, though, I don't know where she got the idea but she used to cut hot dogs into small pieces, then mix them in with canned Franco American Macaroni and cheese and she would add little bits of chopped celery.  I tried doing this once for my husband Michael.  He nearly vomited, and threw it away in the garbage disposal, then went out for pizza.
         We all survived, though.  From Tree Tavern Pizza to Swanson T.V. dinners, to Cott soda, we lived through bad food and good, and can reminisce about those days with many laughs and good humor.  
                         
                          Mom's Macaroni, Franks and Onion Skillet 
    
    
     1/2 cup sliced celery                                2 tblsp chopped onion
    1/4 cup chopped green peppers                3 frankfurters cut in 1 inch pieces
    2 tblsp butter or margarine                       1 can Franco American Mac and cheese
    
    In skillet cook celery, onions, and peppers in butter until tender.  Add franks and brown.  Mix in macaroni and cheese.  Heat, stirring now and then.  Makes 2 or 3 servings.  
    
    
    
    
     
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    

             
                                                                                        







 

28 Ludwig Rd. - Chickens, Snakes and A New Sister

   My grandfather, ca. 1976
  Photo by June Sundgren Mita

     Yes, we had chickens.  My grandfather, Ralph Harlow, raised show birds and got my dad and my brother involved.  Within a few years, we had about 70 birds and showed them all over the northeast.  We had very good birds.  We could sell them for quite a bit of money.  My brother Craig won many championships with our bantams and cochins.
     My dad invested a great deal of money in those chickens and they needed protecting.
     At some point while we were building up our chicken population, my sister Melanie was born.  She came into the world on Oct. 25, 1965.  I can't remember my mother going into the hospital to have her, but I remember after she came home I wanted to be a little mommy, at least in the beginning.  I was 8 at the time, and I remember changing her on an old metal bassinet that we got from one of my aunts.  Melanie immediately won my father's heart.  She was like having a living doll.  Dad couldn't help but be proud that there was another child to add to our mix.  Of course, Craig escaped the crying by hiding in the chicken coops, or riding his bike to a friends house.  He wasn't around to really take care of Melanie, though I do remember he gave her a bath a few times and did change her.
                                                                                                                    Us kids in 1966

              Dad's Chicken Cure

     We got a dachshund in 1968 from a lady who lived in   Crystal Lake.  His name was Fritzi.  My sister loved him.  She was maybe 3 when Fritzi came to live with us.
     There was a problem, though.  Fritzi had  a taste for live chickens and he sucked our prize eggs that were supposed to become grown prize winning birds.  Dad said he had to get rid of Fritzi, but Melanie went into hysterics when she thought Fritzi, her best friend, was going away.  Dad could never say no to Melanie, so he decided to try a different approach to train Fritzi to not like chickens so much.
     We had several very large, old barred Plymouth Rocks that were generally left to free range during the summer months.  They roosted in trees at night and kept the yard clean of bugs and worms.  One particular rock was the master of the yard.  He was so big, you would mistake him for a turkey, at least in size.  He also was one of the roughest and meanest birds we had.  Generally rocks are docile, but this one was always fighting with some of the other free birds.  He used to peck many of our white cochins, but he did breed and well and produced many other rocks.
     Dad decided that he would do an experiment with Fritzi and this giant of a barred rock.  As dusk fell one night, dad took Fritzi outside.  He went to a large cage he had put in the backyard.  Inside that cage was our disagreeable barred rock, made more so by not being allowed to roam free.  Dad put Fritzi in the cage with that chicken, shut the door and left the two.
     Fritzi could be heard whimpering and crying all night.  The barred rock thoroughly scolded and pecked Fritzi all night.  Dad had even put a few eggs in the cage and Fritzi couldn't get near them with that chicken in the cage with him.
     By morning, Fritzi had numerous pecks and bloody spots all over him but the chicken had trained the dog to discontinue his unacceptable taste from chickens and eggs.  Whenever Fritzi forgot, dad let him spend a nigh with whatever ill-tempered bird we had at the moment, and Fritzi would be good for another long while.

                                            York, Pennsylvania  ca. 1973

     The 70's were a time where nobody knew what they were doing or why, just that they did it.  Our government didn't know what it was doing either.  I actually saw my first and only demonstration in 1973.  There was a parade of people holding signs, marching on the sidewalk in York, PA.  I don't remember what they were protesting, but we were there for a big chicken show, one of the biggest on the east coast.  I took photos of the protest and had no idea why they were there.  We had a reason to be there and knew exactly what we were doing.
     I was wide eyed seeing these hippie folks in their long skirts and peasant blouses walking and blocking the way.  It was a memorable trip, and the only one I took to such a big chicken show.
     We had an aqua colored Chrysler Newport that had a vent which never closed  We used to take it to Sanborn's Garage in Crystal Lake to fix it but no matter how much money we gave them, we always were freezing in the winter because the vent kept cold air pumping into the car.
     So my mom drove the car all over York.  We had griddle cakes one morning at a corner cafe, literally.  The door was built into a corner.  I had never had griddle cakes the size of a 10 inch plate before.  It was dripping with real, sweet, premium grade maple syrup.
     Of course I was always a photo buff so when we were over to Bird In Hand to see the Amish people, I had a Kodak instamatic on the ready.   My dad got mad at me as we drove.  He said they did not want their pictures taken and to stop.  He said they believed if a photo was taken of them, it would take their soul and they would be condemned.  I could take photos of them from the back in their carriages, just not any that showed their eyes.
     We went into a general store and they had gorgeous quilts completely handmade, for sale.  What really drew my mother's attention, though, was a dish pattern.  She fell in love with one that was displayed.  It was called Friendly Village by Johnson Bros. Mom saw the price and turned her back
on it, but you could see she wanted it badly.  We left without it. 
     Mom was a very bad driver.  We had that huge Newport and many cars in 1973 were getting very small because gas prices had risen dramatically and there was also a gas shortage, causing long lines.  The Newport needed to be filled every couple of days, it guzzled gas so much.  It was a tank, compared to tiny Mavericks and Pintos.
     After our trip out to Amish country, we came back to the hotel.  It was a left in and we had to cross over two lanes of traffic to get in.  The Newport did not maneuver well.  The car in the closest left lane opened up to let us take our left.  As mom tried to go into the drive, a small car came down the lane nearest the driveway and crashed right into my mom.  The Newport didn't even move from the impact, but that little car looked like it had gone off a tall building and landed on its front end.  It crumpled nearly all the way to the driver seat.  None of us got hurt, but the state of Pennsylvania sent us a piece of mail a few months later telling us mom would be arrested and jailed if she ever drove in Pennsylvania again.
     One good thing came out of it, though (besides a bundle of prize money for our chickens.)  Dad actually heard mom yearning for the Friendly Village set.  That Christmas, she opened a giant box filled with an 8 piece set of the pattern.  I have never seen my mother ever as ecstatic as she was when she opened the box.  She cried as she began pulling out the pieces, one at a time.  My sister Melanie got the set and added to it over time, and it has become our traditional Thanksgiving and Christmas dinnerware ever since.

                          The Unfortunate Blackberry Incident ca. 1964

     Speaking of poor driving, I always seemed to be the child that was lucky enough to be in nearly every accident or car mishap my mother had.  We had a big old woody station wagon after we had to get rid of the Bel Air.  One time, mom stopped on Rt. 140 in Crystal Lake because she spotted a huge patch of black raspberries.  Craig and I had our coffee cans to pick the berries near the road while mom went further in to get the berries that were way back.
     When mom decided we had enough berries, she failed to inform me.  So since I was concentrating on picking berries or perhaps I had dropped them and was trying to pick them up, I did not hear her open the door or even start the car.  The car began to move without me in it.  I grabbed the door handle trying to open it.  I was hanging off the door handle screaming for her to stop.  Just then a car came by beeping its horn.  Mom rolled down the window and the woman hollered, "Do you know you have a little girl hanging off the door handle and being dragged?"  Mom couldn't believe she had left me behind.  Those cars were so big that a child could get lost for days and not be found.  That may be what scraped off my warts on my knees.  

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     Another time, around 1968, mom was driving in East Hartford.  I think at the time we had a dark red sedan.  We always needed a car, and dad could only afford the cheapest used cars.  Not only that, but he always got loans for them from a company called Beneficial Finance.  The average interest on car loans was probably around 20%.  We always had collection agencies calling us because dad didn't believe in paying more than what he borrowed, leaving all the interest unpaid.  
     So mom was driving, and I was in the front passenger seat.  Craig and Melanie were sitting in the back.  I don't know if my mom ran a red light or the light had just changed, but as we were going through the intersection, a car came darting from the street we were crossing.  I saw the car coming because it was on my side.  I was so afraid of breaking glass that I tried diving under the dashboard, which seemed big enough to fit my 90 pounds.  When the car hit us, I was thrown against the underpart of the dash and I had a very bad traumatic brain injury from it.  I was checked at the hospital for a concussion and the huge gash in my head had been dressed and covered.  They even did a brain scan on me. 
     By 1971 , I had my first seizure.  I was a freshman in high school.  Though it was never proven, dad was convinced my epilepsy had been brought on by that accident in East Hartford.  I continued having seizures until I was 28.  Then I got pregnant with my daughter, I gave up the dilantin because of possible side affects for her, and I haven't had a seizure since.  
      There were many other mishaps, like slipping in the winter and the Bel Aire landing in a ditch on Webster Rd.  Once a car that size begins to slide, there is no stopping it.  We also had to push our cars on numerous occasions down the hill on Ludwig Rd. to get them started.  We never had good luck with any cars when I was growing up.  

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                Of Honey, Anniversary Cake and Cherries ca. 1964-1967  

     I sometimes wonder if it was all karma.  I was curious about everything and I was a hard child to keep out of trouble.  I would sleep walk at night and end up waking in the morning in strange places, like under the table, or behind the bookcase or in the hallway. or maybe in my brother's bed or my parents bed.  I used to see things too, like shadows peering at me from my bedroom door.  I had to have a night light because of all my fears and nightmares.  I was horribly sleep deprived because I would lie awake at night waiting for shadows or lights in my room.  I knew if I fell asleep I would have nightmares.  Perhaps that is why I was always in to everything.
     Some things I did was hide in the broom closet and eat Purina dog chow.  Sounds weird, but it was actually kind of sweet and really crunchy.  I loved anything crunchy.  I also liked to climb on the counter in the basement because on the top shelf was a gallon container of creamed honey.  If you have never had creamed honey, it tastes so good it must be from heaven.  I would take off the metal cap, because it was stored in a silver paint can.  I would dip my entire hand in and suck up the sweet gooeyness of the honey.  If I got caught, I got spanked really hard, but it was worth the risk. 
     I did a major faux pas, though, regarding that honey.  Dad had changed
its location.  It had been on the top shelf over the sink.  Well, I scanned the shelves, searching for the glint of the can and spotted it way back on the top shelf near the stove.
     Dad had just baked and decorated a 25th anniversary tiered cake for my Aunt Ellie and Uncle Dick.  It had sweet peas, roses, shell borders and a large silver 25 on top.  All I saw was the honey.  Once again , I climbed up on the counter to get at the honey, and I heard dad yell from somewhere in the house, "Junie, your not on that counter are you?  I will skin you alive if you wreck that cake."  Well, guess what.  I rapidly got off the counter, and as I was scrambling to the floor, I put my elbow into that cake.  I put a huge dent in the frosting and even bent the angel food cake.  I did not get skinned alive, but I did get the spanking of my life.  Dad did his best to repair the cake, but it wasn't the same for sure.
      Another time, around 1967, it was my Aunt Phyl's and Uncle Walter's 25th wedding anniversary.  Of course, dad had made the cake for that one as well, without any mishaps thankfully.  The party was held at a restaurant with a large bar at one end of the room.  This time the mischief was made by Melanie.  She was only around 2, or just shy of 2.  
    The celebration included all the cousins and                                 Melanie and family, ca. 1967
even little babies like Melanie.                                                                                          Photo by Naoma Harlow Sundgren

    Behind the bar was a huge barrel of maraschino cherries.  They were used for martinis and other mixed drinks.  There was an entry into the back of the bar.  It was just the right height for someone Melanie's size.  She decided to go under the plank that lifted up for the barkeep when he wanted to leave the counter.  She was most likely quite bored without having any toys to play with, despite the fact that everyone was fighting over her to hold her and play patty cakes with.  
     As she ducked under the plank, she spotted that barrel of cherries.  Well, the barkeep was so taken by her cuteness, that he let her sit on a little stool, and she kept dipping her hand in the barrel and pulled out cherries, dripping with juice.  I don't know how many cherries she ate that day, but she was a pink and sticky mess by the time the party was over.  She of course fell asleep next to the barrel, with a cherry in her hand.   

                                                Snake Summer ca. 1968 

     Up on the hill where we lived, water was hard to find.  Back then, a drilled well was unusual to have.  Most all of us had what we call surface wells.  The well was in our front yard, and was made of huge round cement walls.  We never had a top, or maybe we did have one once, but it got cracked, so my father tried to keep anyone from falling in by placing a large square of sheet metal over the well.  We also had a back up well down in the back where some wet ground was.  
     A back up well is an old New England tradition since many summers are so dry that the main well dries up, so a back up well is built over a stream or natural spring.  The water is usually poor quality, with lots of minerals, but sometimes you have to use it.  
     This particular summer was unusually dry and droughty.  We all would be on the phone with the neighbors every morning asking the same question.  "You got any water today?"  Whoever had water, shared with the rest of the neighbors.  Rarely could we share, because even the back up well was dry.  Usually we did have enough water, at least first thing in the morning, and mom would fill pans and milk containers until the water stopped coming out of the faucet.
     I remember the Darlings lived  way up on Newell Hill Road on an old farm.  They had a well from the 1800's that had a hand pump.  I remember going up there to pump out some water, though most of the time nothing came out.  Mr. Darling told us a tall tale that summer.  He said it was so dry that when they turned on the faucet, a huge black snake came out and began squiggling around the floor.  For the rest of the summer, I was petrified to turn on our faucet in case a snake came out.  It was a good excuse not to draw any water from the tub, so I probably didn't get a bath for most of it.  
     One morning, though, it was my turn to go check the well to see if we had any water to share with the neighbors.  I  went boldly over to the sheet metal cover, and pushed it off.  Well, I screamed so loud and ran as fast as I could away from the well.  Mom came out, thinking I had fallen down the well.  What she saw instead, was about 5 black snakes curled up all around the cement of the well.  Dad came out and began laughing as my mother started squealing as well.  The snakes were so dry and hot that they had curled up under the sheet metal, to get cool.  They must have spent the night circling the walls of the well.  Mom wanted to know if any had fallen in.  Dad looked down, and said probably not.  From that point on, I really never wanted to turn on the faucet again